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The changes in values and attitudes in Iran are considered to be in a positive direction concerning the relationships and interactions of boys and girl before marriage. In this area, boys are more accordant with these kinds of relationships than girls. This study aimed to determine the relationship between emotional intelligence, honesty; impulsivity and compatibility with a desire for a relationship with the opposite sex. The target population in this study is all single people (male and female) of Shahre- Kord city, ranged between 13-18 years, 250 subjects of unmarried people of Shahre- kord city, ranged between13-18 years of age were chosen, randomly. They were divided into four groups of people who have relationship with boys, have relationship with girls, have no relationship with girls, and have no relationship with boys. The relationship between each of the variables emotional intelligence, honesty, impulsivity and compatibility were measured with a desire for a relationship with them. Analysis of data with correlation coefficient indicated that there is a significant difference between honesty, impulsivity and compatibility with a desire for a relationship with the opposite sex but there is no significant difference between emotional intelligence and relationship with the opposite sex. Therefore, checking these items and providing appropriate solutions in this area can lead to improvement in healthiness of male and female relationships.
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